Sunday, April 30, 2006
The Softball Game
Well, today was a good day. We took Brenden to the ball diamonds to experience his dad playing softball. He spent about 4 hours in the fresh air at the diamonds and hardly did anything. It was unfortunate that it was so windy, as I would have let him see more, but we had to keep the cover on him. He wasn't impressed with the wind at all. After that we came home, and fed him and out him down. Today he screamed a bit, but shortly after, he fell right asleep. He has been sleeping on average between 2 to 4 hours per feeding session. At night time the average is about 3 hours. Michelle was up twice last night. Tonight I am staying up until the baby wakes up (should be around 1AM or so). I'll feed him, change him, and put him back to bed. Let's hope he gets about 4hrs tonight. A little sleep will be nice. Tomorrow we have a Dr. Appointment for the weekly checkup. We'll let you know the weight when I return. He is getting a little more chubby faced, so I believe he is eating well. Heck, he has almost outgrown 3 of the sleepers we bought for him early this year. Growing like a weed I guess. Good night all.
Saturday, April 29, 2006
Baby Soother
Thanks to the soother, maybe we can get a little more sleep at night, because this every 2hr thing is killing Michelle and I. Who would have thought it would be so darn hard. Should be just eat, poop, sleep, eat, poop, sleep, every day, but no, someone had to throw the screaming, crying parts in there as well.
Anyway, we're managing with bottle feeding and soothers now, and tonight will be the first test to see if we can actually sleep for more then 2hrs at a time.
zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz, *yawn*
Friday, April 28, 2006
Nurse Visitation
Today he went on a crying spurt. Changed him, cried, tried to feed him, cried, consoled him, cried, rocked him, cried. Nothing has seemed to work to stop him. Right now and hour later from the start of crying I believe he has cried himself to sleep. All is very quiet now. Maybe I can get a bit of sleep, before he wakes up. I can't wait until he's on the same sleep schedule as me. 8hrs and rarin' to go the next morning.
Here's my quote of the day, "My baby's only noisy when he's crying."
Thursday, April 27, 2006
Through Week #1
I believe the Jaundice is totally gone. Since the Dr. hasn't called us back, I assume that it is good news. When you see him you can tell that there is very little left.
Wednesday, April 26, 2006
Almost a week!
Wow, has time seemed to fly by. Just after midnight tonight, and the baby will be a week old. They were right when they said time would go fast.
This week has been a little tough for us. Getting up throughout the night is not us. We both don't like it. Even though we both say, "It's ok, I don't mind." The real answer is, "Can I just get some sleep please."
Brenden has been a little fussier at night recently. He normally slept for 3-4 hours, but lately it has been only 2 hours throughout. The need for milk has seemed to increase. Before I know it, he'll be all grown up.
Anyway, I missed yesterdays post. Just too busy and no time for the computer. We went to the hospital yesterday to get the Jaundice retested. Took about 15 minutes and went home. The Dr. office called me and said I had to go back to the hospital because the test didn't work and they would have to redo it. Apparently nothing can be easy for us. As of now, we haven't heard back from the Dr. office about the results. I would assume that they would only call if their were a problem, so I guess everything is 'ok'. He doesn't look as yellow as before, unless of course he has his yellow sleeper on.
I just fed Brenden and put him to sleep, so I had enough time to post today and yesterdays posts. I'll be putting up a few more pictures today on the picture website when I get time, maybe before he wakes up. Visit the website here: http://thevipers.ca/ourbaby/index.html
Monday, April 24, 2006
On to Day #5
Well, another night in the books. Brenden woke up twice throughout the night. He is a little fussy at night time trying to get him back to sleep, but once he's asleep, he's out for a good 3 hours or so. He has been asleep since 7am or so this morning, so a good 4 hours this time.
Today Brenden has his first Dr's appointment at 4:15pm. Should be interesting because I am going to my family Dr. here in Ajax who delivered me 30 years ago. Here's another generation for him, until he retires. I will post when we get back from the Dr. Appointment.
Part 2:
We made it through Day #5. Went to the Dr. and he said everything was fine. He said the Jaundice looks very minor, but says we should go to the hospital tomorrow and have it tested one more time, just to make sure. We are going to go in early just to get it done as soon as we can and come home. The best news is that the baby has gained his weight back. He dropped 3% from birth and is now back up to 6lbs 14oz. Now the growing should continue.
So today was the baby's first ride in the car, and first ride in his stroller. We went to Walmart to pick up a few items. He slept all day, and missed it all. Apparently he likes shopping as much as I do. If only I could sleep through it too.
Let you all know tomorrow what we find out tomorrow. Good night, it's passed my bedtime (11:52pm).
Sunday, April 23, 2006
First night at home
We made it. Today we have had a lot of visitors and phone calls, and overall the baby hasn't cried hardly at all. He has been very good. I am sure he'll wait until everyone leaves.
Later all.
Saturday, April 22, 2006
Welcome Home Brenden!
The day was tough because Brenden came down with borderline Jaundice. They retested this morning at 6:00am, and we expected to hear results early, since they told us it only takes 1 hour for them. Time was ticking, nurses were in and out, and as of 12pm we heard nothing. I asked at the reception and they told me the results were they but they had to wait for the pediatrician to come. We waited until 3pm. Finally an RN came in and told us that we were recommended to have 1 more test done and would have to stay longer. Honestly, this was the worse news. I know it's best for the baby, but at this point when they tell you you'll most likely get to go home before noon, and now we have to stay for another test at 3pm, we expected it would take 3-4 hours at least. They said it would be an hour again. From 3 to 4pm was the longest hour ever. I tried to sleep to make it go quicker. I did, then woke up, looked at the clock and it was 3:15pm. Could it go any slower. Finally at about 4:15pm, a different RN came in. The words were sweet harmony, much like that of someone who has commited a crime and the sentence is finally over. "You're all free to go home now," was the words we wanted to hear. We did. A big sigh of relief, then the biggest smiles ever appeared as we looked at one another. "Finally," we said, "It's time for Brenden to see the world and visit his new home!" The moment we were waiting for.
Well we're here, and all we have to say is,
Friday, April 21, 2006
One more night
Last night was amazing! Brenden slept from 2AM ti 8AM. That's my normal hours of sleep, so he is right on schedule already. We'll see what happens tonight, althrough the nurses advised that tonight we get up every 3 hours to feed because of the slight Jaundice.
Well, just picked up a few more diapers and sleepers and once again I'm heading back!
I would like to say CONGRATULATIONS to Justin and Christine (Michelle's Cousin) on delivering their baby boy (Thomas Kuipers) the same day as ours! April 20 is a great day for both of our families! All the best to the Kuipers and Christine's Family!
Thursday, April 20, 2006
It's a ..................
Anyway, mom and baby are healthy and in great condition!
Well, I gotta go back to the hospital for the night. We should be back home sometime Friday afternoon as they've already told us we would be discharged on Friday. I'll post a new message when we arrive home with our new pride and joy.
Here are the details and some pictures:
Sex: Boy
Name: Brenden "David" Schaefer
Birtdate: April 20, 2006
Time: 12:06am
Weight: 6lbs 13oz
Height: 53cm
(Click on pictures to make them full-size)
Wednesday, April 19, 2006
Dr & Hospital Visit today
We're off to the hospital......
more news to follow.......
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Tuesday, April 18, 2006
So what's new?
So we are officially into Week 42. The final week. Friday is the date. After the final Dr. Appointment tomorrow, we'll know exactly what's going to happen and I'll be sure to let you all know as soon as I know. We do know that Michelle will be induced on April 21, if nothing happens by then.
What's Friday? The NHL Playoffs start. I wonder if they get all the games in the hospital?
Coping strategies after 40 weeks:
"It can be hard to cope with the waiting now you are overdue. If everyone's ringing to ask if you've had the baby and you're sick of repeating yourself, put a message on your answering machine and get out of the house. Several BabyCentre mums have suggested driving over speed bumps to bring on labour naturally — your bladder might not like it, though!"
• Have something planned for every day. Don't stay at home wondering whether you can feel anything happening. Get out of the house — but not too far!
• If you haven't already stocked up the freezer, do so now. After your baby is born, you'll be really glad you've got lots of food in the house. (Try our tasty freezable recipes for new mums.)
• Tell friends and relatives not to ring every day to find out what's happening — say you'll ring them when the big event has taken place!
• Go out for lots of last-minute treats with your partner. It won't be so easy after your baby's born.
• Rest — if you're finding it difficult to sleep at night, take a nap during the day. Put your feet up. Play some music. Don't fret if you can't sleep, dozing is fine. Build up your energy stores for labour. (Read more about sleep in the last months of pregnancy.)
• If you think labour's started, but you're not sure, phone your midwife and ask for advice. Never hesitate to give her a call if you're worried. (Remind yourself of the signs of labour.)
Monday, April 17, 2006
Happy Easter
I trust those that had a long weekend had a good one. Thanks to MOM & DAD for that great meal on Sunday! Very filling and very good. Oh, and thanks for the leftovers, I will enjoy it just as much for lunch today!
I am not sure why, but at night now, Michelle needs to keep the bedroom window open a crack. I wake up this morning to 17C bedroom. It's almost colder in the bedroom than outside. It's like a freezer. I like the fresh air, don't get me wrong, but I don't like a cold bedroom. And of course, since I hate Monday's, it makes it all that much harder to get out of bed in the morning. When your nice and cozy in a bed that's 25C, you really don't feel like sitting up and facing the 17C. Needless to say I had a super hot shower to try and unthaw myself.
I finally got my convertible back on the road. How exciting. Another 5-10C and I can put the top down and drive in style. I'm still debating whether or not to put the baby seat in the back of the convertible (haha).
Well for sure this is our final week. A Dr. Appointment on Wednesday and Michelle will be induced on Friday April 21. Hopefully it will happen before then, but the way things have been going, it doesn't seem that way.
Easter must be exciting in Central Europe. Read more:
In the Czech Republic, Hungary and Slovakia, a tradition of whipping is carried out on Easter Monday. In the morning, males whip females with a special handmade whip called pomlázka (in Czech) or korbáč (in Slovak). The pomlázka/korbáč consists of eight, twelve or even twenty-four withies (willow rods) and is usually from half a metre to two metres long and decorated with coloured ribbons at the end. It must be mentioned that while whipping can be painful, the purpose is not to cause suffering. Rather, the purpose is for males to exhibit their attraction to females; unvisited females can even feel offended. The whipped female gives a coloured egg to the male as a sign of her thanks and forgiveness. A legend says that females should be whipped in order to keep their health and fertility during whole next year. In some regions the females can get revenge in the afternoon when they can pour a bucket of cold water on any male. The habit slightly varies across the Czech Republic. A similar tradition existed in Poland (where it is called Dyngus Day), but it is now little more than an all-day waterfight.
Sunday, April 16, 2006
Casino update
Prior to that we went to Montana's in Peterborough for dinner and because it was Mirri's birthday. I know she probably doesn't want to see this, but I have to show it. See, once they find out it's your birthday at Montana's, they really do a special thing for you. Heck you even get FREE Ice Cream. I really don't know it's worth wearing moose antlers for it though. The staff even sang a nice song to us. Here are the pictures (sorry Mirri, had to post them. They are just to funny.)
Hey, Mirri, you got your ears on??
Oh and by the way...no Jackpots...No baby!
Saturday, April 15, 2006
Boy? Girl? Casino?
Anyway, we are going out for Mirri's(Michelle's best friend) birthday tonight, for dinner and the casino. Hopefully by tomorrow I can post some good news, with our winnings anda about water breaking.
Well, lets try one more poll, for lack of anything to really post today. I noticed in the last poll, quite a few said today. Yeah right, we wish! Try this one out:
Friday, April 14, 2006
Not So Good Friday
Today we did the walking thing, and tried to figure out other methods of inducing labor. I thought if I poked the belly a hundred times or more, it may annoy the baby enough to want to come out. After 10-15 times, Michelle got more annoyed than the baby. I stopped.
Well, most votes I've seen are for tomorrow, so for our sake, lets hope it happens then, afterall that day is Michelle's best friends birthday. HAPPY BIRTHDAY tomorrow MIRRI!
Thursday, April 13, 2006
Reached 1000 visits
Yeah, right. Nothing new to report today. Business as usual. I was kind of hoping we would win the lottery, since I believe that would actually cause labor to happen right away, but the odds are stacked against us on that one.
I created a poll to help us determine what everyone else thinks. Please indicate what date you think the baby will arrive. There is no prize for this if you do get it right. You can maybe just play the lottery because luck is on your side.
What day do you think the baby will arrive? |
Wednesday, April 12, 2006
The Dr. Appointment
Anyway, long story short, good news, bad news.
Good news: Baby is doing great, head down, 2cm dilated, should be any day now (he in fact said that last week as well, so now I take it as a, "whatever")
Bad news: April 15 was suppose to be the induction day...but nope...Dr. said, we'll give it another week, until April 21. Surely he can't be serious. I thought Michelle was going to grab him by the scruff of the neck and tell him no. Enough waiting already. As if I wasn't nervous enough, now I have to be nervous for another week!
I am routing for baby everyday, giving it encouragement, letting it know that it is much nicer outside the womb, more things to see, more things to do, more room to move. Well, I guess baby will come when it wants to, but everyday past is an extra day of grounding. Haha!
Tuesday, April 11, 2006
Baby is Grounded
We are patiently waiting for the Dr. appointment tomorrow, where we'll definitely find out what's going on, what's going to happen, and when it's going to happen. We will know more by tomorrow afternoon, and I'll be sure to post the news tomorrow night.
I was thinking this morning, debating with myself, as to whether or not I should keep this BLOG going after the baby is born. I have talked to many people, mainly family and friends about the site, and they love it. They actually check it everyday. This is great, but will it really get the attention after the baby is born? Will it be worth keeping it up? Who would really have any interest as to what I have to say? Then again, would I run out of things to talk about? All of these questions running through my head. Then I saw a sign this morning, and I've seen it many times before. Scrapbooking. Well this is somewhat a form of online Scrapbooking. Sure it's a journal, but it can be more. When my child grows up, he/she can look back at these postings, pictures, comments, just to see what kind of things we went through, throughout the stages of growing up. Even if no one follows this, I can be sure that it was writing worth keeping. If people want to find out what's going on, they can simply come here, and check on us, and see if anything is new.
So the final word. Don't expect this BLOG to stop once the baby is born. I will attempt to keep it going as long as I can. Some may agree or disagree with the writings, but hey, we're not all perfect......just me (haha!)
Thanks and Happy Reading!
Monday, April 10, 2006
Another Day, No Baby
Well, no baby, means another "Munday". Actually this morning I felt great waking up early (did I just say that?). For those that know me, know I'm not a morning person and I would never say that. It almost seems weird to me to say that, but it's so true. Maybe it was the fact I was in bed before midnight, but then again, I have been up quite early this past week or so. Maybe I'm looking forward to waking up early and never getting a good nights sleep again, who knows. Heck, I've had 30 years of good sleep, it's gotta stop sometime, right? Now I will be reduced to small naps throughout the day. Except while I'm at work of course. I don't think they like people napping while they work. As long as I have lots and lots of Tim Hortons coffee, I'll get by.
I have a feeling something may happen today, but again, that could just be gas.
Time to get ready for work, cell phone at my side.
Check out the WORDS OF WISDOM I received from people I work with.
Thanks to all of those that contributed.
Sunday, April 9, 2006
Scare the Baby Out
Part 2: (Evening): Well, I hit many bumps on the way home, swirved the car a few times, went fast around corners, squeeled the tires, and ........ NOTHING. I probably show have gone offroading, but around Ajax, there's not to many places to do that legally. I guess we'll just wait another day or two. Back to work tomorrow for me, my holidays haven't started yet.
Saturday, April 8, 2006
The Day After, D-Day
For all those wondering, still nothing happening today. We are hoping for this weekend, but we're not sure yet. We do know the absolute deadline will be, no later then April 15, at which time Michelle would be induced. So definately by next weekend we'll have a baby. Looking now, this will be our last weekend as the two of us. It is a very exciting time, and well, as you know, nerve racking. It's all a matter of time now, and not knowing what time is tough. I am almost afraid to leave the house, just in case something does happen. I know I have the cell phone, but it would be easier if I were here already. I don't want to have to rush home, when I could have just stayed home. Tonight I have a banquet to go to, and I will attempt to go to. I know she has this fear of the water breaking in public, so I'm not sure if Michelle will want to go. That's her choice.
On Thursday we put the baby seat in the SUV. Our bags are packed, and we're ready to go at anytime. We are now just waiting for baby to arrive. Tick...Tock...Tick...Tock...
Friday, April 7, 2006
D-Day is Here, Or is it?
Well watch this BLOG often, because if I get a minute or two prior going to the hospital, I'll make sure I post it here. I am not so sure I will, but I can try. If not, those family members involved will get a phone call from me. Make sure you keep all lines open for the next little while, and don't hang up on me, I'm not a telemarketer.
Thursday, April 6, 2006
The Ringing Phone
I recieved a very good article from a friend here at work, for new fathers. Check it out, as it has some great information in it (Thanks Evelyn). It's called "A New Father's Feelings".
Ring.....ring......
Tuesday, April 4, 2006
Week 40 is here!
Looks like we've made it to Week 40. I can tell you this, the baby has been very active, but hasn't seemed to find his/her way out yet. We've tried to help guide him/her downward, but the baby is being stubborn. Takes after me already! I am sure this week will be the longest week ever. Heck, time has flown up till now, but the days are just dragging on now.
I have a question. When the cervix is dilated, can the baby really see the light at the end of the tunnel? I am likely to get beatings for this one. Come on, laugh, its just a joke......SMACK! Ouch!
Sunday, April 2, 2006
Not April Fools
As of today, nothing yet. The waiting game is still on.